Tower Bar, West Hollywood
Inside the Sunset Tower Hotel on the Strip: a jazz pianist, flattering rose-tinted light and a well-dressed crowd. See whether your date looks as good across a table as on a screen.
Sunshine and mischief
Naughty Dating Los Angeles: Flirt in the Sunshine
Meet flirty singles from the Westside to the Eastside, and plan a first drink that doesn't cost you an hour on the 405.
Golden Hour, Then a Little Mischief
Los Angeles flirts in daylight. Brunch drifts into the afternoon, sunset drinks drift into the evening, and by the time the lights come on along Sunset Boulevard the cheeky ones are only getting started.
Naughty Dating fits that rhythm: chat, look at a few pictures, meet for a drink and then do whatever the two of you fancy. No scripts required.
Say on your profile whether you want a summer fling, a regular naughty date or flirty messages to brighten a long day on set.
Pick Your Side of Town
In Los Angeles, distance is measured in minutes, not miles. Someone ten miles away in Silver Lake can be easier to reach than someone five miles away across the 405 at rush hour.
| Area | The feel | Getting there |
|---|---|---|
| West Hollywood | Sunset Strip glamour and late bars | Rideshare; parking is tight |
| Silver Lake | Indie bars around Sunset Junction | Car or rideshare |
| Santa Monica | Ocean air and sunset drinks | E Line from Downtown |
| Hollywood | Old-school bars and late shows | B Line to Hollywood/Highland |
Most nights still end with a car, a valet ticket or a rideshare, so sort the ride home before the first drink.
Who's Flirting Across California
Our American numbers are counted per state, so this is California as a whole rather than LA County alone: over 150 members, and more than 1,500 nationwide on Naughty Dating USA.
Members under 3539%
Members aged 35 to 4437%
Members aged 45 to 5413%
Members aged 55 or over11%
Shares of our members across California, from our member records.
California runs a little younger than our American average. Nearly four in ten members here are under 35, the 35 to 44s are close behind at 37%, and only around one in ten is 55 or over.
The matches we suggest each day are picked around how far you will travel, and VIP members can filter by city and distance too, which saves a lot of hopeful messages between Burbank and Long Beach. Every tool is on our features page.
First drinks
Three Places Worth the Drive
Public, buzzing and easy to leave, each with a little old-Hollywood glamour.
Musso & Frank Grill, Hollywood
A Hollywood Boulevard fixture since 1919. Take a seat at the bar, order something classic and let more than a century of film-star gossip fill any pauses.
The Lobby Lounge, Santa Monica
At Hotel Casa del Mar, looking over the beach towards the pier, with live music in the evenings. Arrive before sunset and let the view do the talking.
Getting There and Back, the LA Way
In LA, a safe first meet mostly comes down to how you travel.
Drive Yourself or Book Your Own Ride
Never accept a lift from someone you have not met. Valet, a rideshare or the Metro keeps your plans in your hands, and your profile only shows your nearest town or city.
Keep It Public
Hotel bars and busy restaurants are ideal: staff on hand, people about and nobody minds if you leave after one.
Let Someone Know
Send a friend the bar and your match's username. A verified badge, earned with a free ID check, is worth looking for, and if anything feels off, end the date and report the profile.
Read how our safety checks work, and pick up a few naughty dating profile tips before you start.
Out of Town Tonight?
Find singles close to you with naughty dating near me, head east with naughty dating in New York, or browse all our locations. When a bar feels too ordinary, our naughty date ideas pick up where the sunset leaves off.
Questions Angelenos Ask
Is the Metro any use for getting to a date in LA?
More than you might think. The A and E Lines connect Long Beach, Pasadena, Downtown and Santa Monica, and rideshares cover the gaps. Picking someone within easy reach matters more than how you get there.
How far should I set my distance in Los Angeles?
Think in drive time rather than miles. Start with a radius you could cover in half an hour on a weeknight, then widen it if you want more choice.
How big is Naughty Dating in California?
More than 150 members across the state. Close to four in ten are under 35, and about one in ten is 55 or over.
Does Orange County count, or only LA?
The figures cover all of California, so Irvine, Anaheim and the Inland Empire are in the picture. Set your distance to however far you will happily drive.
Make It a Hollywood Ending
Build your profile before the sun goes down and see who fancies a drink nearby.
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