Auckland to Christchurch
Naughty Dating NZ: The Naughtiest Singles in New Zealand
A friendly, close-knit crowd of over 70 Kiwi members, most of them around Auckland, Wellington and Christchurch.
A Close-Knit Crowd With a Cheeky Streak
Naughty Dating's New Zealand crowd is close-knit: over 70 members, three in four of them in the Auckland, Wellington and Canterbury regions.
That makes for a friendly, local scene, the kind where you soon recognise a few usernames and a flirty conversation can pick up where it left off last month.
It is made for grown-ups with a more casual approach to dating. Say what you are after, keep things discreet and have some fun with it: a fling, a regular naughty date or a flirt to brighten a windy Wellington Tuesday.
Nearly half of our Kiwi members are aged 35 to 54. Under-35s make up over a quarter and the 55-plus crowd close to a quarter, so the ages are nicely spread.
Shares of our members in New Zealand, from our member records.
Flirty First Drinks in Auckland, Wellington and Christchurch
Naughty Dating in Auckland
Auckland has more of our New Zealand members than any other region. Ponsonby Road is lined with cafés and bars for an easy first drink, and where it meets K Road the late-night bars take over, with a bohemian streak. By day, Auckland Art Gallery Toi o Tāmaki, beside Albert Park, is an easy place to wander, or you can stroll the waterfront from the Viaduct to Wynyard Quarter.
Naughty Dating in Wellington
Cuba Street is the capital's creative heart, all coffee, vintage shops and the Bucket Fountain that splashes anyone who strays too close. For a later drink, Hawthorn Lounge on Tory Street pours cocktails in a speakeasy setting. Te Papa, the national museum on the waterfront, makes an easy daytime meet, and the cable car up to Kelburn gives you a view and an excuse to stand close.
Naughty Dating in Christchurch
Christchurch and the rest of Canterbury come third, after Auckland and Wellington. The heritage tram runs along New Regent Street, where bars and cafés make for a relaxed first drink, and Riverside Market on Oxford Terrace stays open into the evening with eateries and bars. Christchurch Art Gallery Te Puna o Waiwhetū opens until 9pm on Wednesdays, handy for a midweek meet, and if things go well, punting on the Avon makes a flirty second date.
Reach Further Whenever You Like
Live outside the big three? Set a wider distance and your matches can take in the nearest city as well as your own patch, which suits a country where the good bits are spread out. Our naughty dating near me page explains how location and distance work.
New to all this? Start with a clear photo and an honest line about what you are after. Our naughty dating profile tips help you stand out, and when a match catches your eye, our naughty chat-up lines take the pressure off that first message. In a close-knit scene, a little wit goes a long way.
Across the Tasman, naughty dating in Australia covers Melbourne, Sydney and beyond, and the locations page lists every country and city we cover. For first-date inspiration, try our naughty date ideas.
Discreet in a Country Where Everyone Knows Someone
Two degrees of separation can make anyone a little cautious, so privacy comes as standard.
- Your profile shows a username and the nearest town to you. Your real name, email and address stay hidden.
- Block someone and they can no longer see you or contact you, which is handy if a familiar face turns up.
- A verified badge means a member has passed a government ID check, so you know they are who they say they are.
- Photos and profiles are screened as they are uploaded, and explicit images stay blurred until you choose to look.
Read more about how Naughty Dating keeps you safe, and see our guide on how to spot a fake dating profile.
Quick Answers for Kiwis
Is there a naughty dating site in NZ?
Yes. Naughty Dating has over 70 New Zealand members, most of them around Auckland, Wellington and Christchurch. It runs on your phone or computer, and a profile takes minutes to set up.
Will people I know see me on Naughty Dating?
Members see your username, the photos you choose and your nearest town, never your name or email. If you spot someone you would rather avoid, block them and your profile disappears from their view.
What if I do not live near Auckland, Wellington or Christchurch?
Widen your distance and your matches will reach further afield. There are members elsewhere too, Otago among them, so set your range to match how far you are happy to travel.
How old are New Zealand members?
Close to half are between 35 and 54, a little over a quarter are under 35 and nearly a quarter are 55 or older. Everyone must be 18 or over to join.
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